What is a foot fetish?

A foot fetish is when sexual arousal is derived from feet. If you have a foot fetish, feet, toes, ankles, heels, boots, running shoes, etc. turn you on. Foot fetishes, like most fetishes, are very personal and unique. Some people are turned on just by seeing feet or a woman walking down the street in Louboutin heels. Other people are turned on by being stepped on, kissing a femdom’s feet or worshipping leather boots. Kinks are as unique as the people who have them.

Why do people like foot play?

People develop foot fetishes and an interest in foot play for a variety of reasons. For some, it’s the power exchange, the eroticization of submission (e.g. kneeling at a femdom’s feet) or the humiliation of being physically beneath a dominant. For others, it’s biology: feet are hot and an oft-overlooked erogenous zone. For others still, it’s the historic and pop culture references.

And because they are smart, duh.

How do I know if I have a foot fetish?

Have you ever caught yourself staring at a woman’s feet? Or fantasizing about receiving a footjob? Or imagining what it would be like to be a femdom’s human footstool? Or what it’d be like to be trampled in black leather boots? Or wondering what a woman’s feet smell like after the gym?

Congratulations! You have a foot fetish.

How common is a foot fetish?

At least a quarter of all my BDSM session inquiries involve elements of foot fetish and foot worship. Even more so now that I speak freely about my personal interest in foot domination. More broadly? According to PsychologyToday, it is among the most common and mainstream sexual fetishes. Another study found that foot fetishes are the most common form of sexual fetishism among otherwise ‘non-sexual’ objects and body parts.

Do women have foot fetishes?

Of course. Anyone can have a foot fetish! As a naturally dominant woman, I enjoy a variety of foot fetishes and being on the receiving end of foot worship. Submissive women are also very capable of developing foot fetishes. Being into sucking toes and licking boots isn’t gender-specific.

What is foot domination?

It’s perhaps one of my favorite ways to get a submissive under my control. Foot domination is you kneeling naked at my feet. It’s you bootblacking my collection of leather boots. It’s transforming you into my human footstool. It’s you begging to lick the bottom of my heels. It’s you choking on my stilettos. Foot domination is the feeling you feel while under my foot.

How to talk to your partner about your foot fetish?

Open and honest communication is important to every aspect of a relationship, especially when it comes to sexual interests. If you aren’t able to be open and honest about your interest in worshipping feet, how do you expect to get your sexual needs met?

The first step is feeling comfortable with your desires and abandoning any shame (unless it’s sexy) about your interest in worshipping a beautiful woman’s feet.

If you are unable to speak to your partner about it, there is no shame in outsourcing (i.e. hiring a pro).

How do you incorporate foot fetishes into your sex life?

The first step of incorporating your foot fetish into your sex life is to get comfortable with it and learn how to communicate your interests to your partner! Once you’ve done that, it’s just a matter of inspiration. If you have a foot fetish, try:

  • Paying for your partner’s pedicure.
  • Taking them heel, nylon or boot shopping.
  • Taking a course in proper foot massages.
  • Asking permission or begging to kiss or worship your partner’s feet. (Verbalizing desire is sexy!)
  • Incorporating foot worship into your foreplay.
  • Watching footjob porn together to get ideas.
  • Into boots? Try masturbating to a map of Italy.
  • Sucking a toe, bitch.

What do I do if my partner has a foot fetish and I don’t?

First of all, don’t do anything you don’t want to do! But if you are open to exploring foot fetishes and foot worship with your partner, start slowly. I enjoy watching how turned on my feet make my partner, how I can tease and torment them using just the tip of my toe or heel. Figuring out what it is about foot worship that drives my partner wild is half of the fun for me.

Have more questions about foot fetishes and foot worship? Join my foot fan club to ask me personally.